Loving What Is®

Embracing Love in Relationship

(The course to take to be in love for a lifetime? ...Everything you wish you knew & what nobody dared to tell you - now you'll hear it for yourself & from yourself!)

Have you (past), are you (present), or do you want to (future):

• Marry or live in partnership?

• Live in love?

• have children or raise a family?

There is a gap between the intention and the reality of relationships. According to recent statistics, 52% of couples separate or divorce within the first four years of partnership. This is neither an isolated event nor an exception, nor does it reflect a lack of effort by those involved.

So, what can one do to ensure lifelong love and happiness in relationship? This topic-based e-course takes us on a journey from conflict to clarity, from confusion to freedom, from guilt to grace.

Loving What Is®

Embracing Love in Relationship

“Marriage”/life partners as a cultural practice has existed in various forms for thousands of years and has evolved over time. Pinpointing its exact origins is difficult, as different cultures and societies have distinct traditions and rituals associated with marriage. In most societies, marriage is seen as a formal union between two individuals, often with legal, economic, and social implications.

The reasons people marry or come to form a partnership vary greatly, often influenced by cultural, social, legal, and personal factors. Some common reasons include:

• Love and Emotion: Many people choose to marry/partnership out of love and the desire to build a shared future.

• Legal and Financial Benefits: Marriage/Partnership can offer advantages like tax benefits, inheritance rights, health insurance, and social security.

• Family Bonds: Marriage/Partnership can strengthen family ties and provide official status and clarity within society.

• Raising Children: For couples with or planning for children, marriage/partnership is often seen as a stable foundation for parenting.

• Religious or Cultural Reasons: In some traditions or religions, marriage/partnership holds profound spiritual or cultural significance as a sacred bond.

Ultimately, the reasons for marrying and forming partnerships are deeply personal and individual, differing greatly from person to person, place to place, and context to context.

While the decision to marry or be in a partnership can bring many positive aspects, couples often face potential challenges, such as:

• Communication Gaps: Ineffective communication can lead to misunderstandings and conflicts.

• Financial Struggles: Differing views and priorities on finances or income disparities can create tension.

• Everyday Stress: Balancing work, household duties, parenting, and other responsibilities can put pressure on the relationship.

• Differing Expectations: Misaligned ideas about roles, goals, or life plans can lead to disagreements and confusion.

• Intimacy Issues: Challenges in sexual communication and navigating intimacy can create distance.

It is crucial for couples and parents to nurture their relationships to keep them strong and healthy, and work through things as they show up, rather than let them pile up. The intention is; that the stressors that develop can be received to strengthen the relationship, rather than pull at it. The question often arises: “How do I/we do that? And when do I/we begin?”

People enter marriage or partnerships with joy, dreams, and a vision: to be in love, to journey through life together, to strengthen one another, to face challenges hand in hand and be the “wind beneath each others wings”.

However, as statistics show, 52% of couples divorce or separate within the first four years.

This highlights the disconnect between reality and expectations, often causing significant emotional pain, financial strain, and hardships for individuals, couples, parents, and their children along the way.

So, how is it possible to embrace love in relationship, grow, shift, evolve, and stay-in-love together?

We go through countless exams before we get a job.

We attend driving school and pass tests before we drive a car.

But for marriage and parenting, there’s no school or qualification process.

Hhmmmm….?

So, can we receive the statistical invitation and actively empower ourselves as individuals or couples?

Topics individuals can receive to strengthen their marriage / partnership:

• Communication and Conflict Resolution

• Finances and Budgeting

• Responsibilities and Role Allocation

• Intimacy and Sexuality

• Career / Life / Family and Parenting

• Crisis Management and Support Systems

In every area, participants learn simple and effective methods to:

• Identify and release underlying beliefs.

• Listen authentically, share honestly, get in contact with their personal truth.

• Gain clarity, build trust and freedom.

• Receive and process stress, pressure, conflict in constructive, supportive ways.

• Meet their own internal wisdom, experience happiness.

• Experience their individual capacity to fall in love again and again.

Who can benefit from this eCourse: Embracing Love in Relationship?

• Youth and Young adults exploring career paths, family intentions and intimate relationships.

• Individuals and couples seeking to enrich their partnership with clarity, connection, depth and ease.

• Individuals who have experienced separation or divorce and desire to start a new.

• Individuals and couples looking to bring a sense of renewal and freshness into their relationship.

• Individuals consciously choosing not to marry or enter partnerships and wanting to maintain that decision with peace of mind, relaxation, not pressure or force.

In this course, we explore and practice The Work of Byron Katie®. Also named The Work or self-inquiry, this is an innovative self-coaching method designed to take you from conflict to clarity. Applied in Ivy League research it is named "Inquiry-Based Stress Reduction®” and is aligned with modern neuroscience. This method provides practical tools to engage with thoughts, beliefs, and patterns with awareness and ease.

The process is simple and works harmoniously with the natural system of creation, following the principles of thought, feeling, action, and having.

What you can gain from Embracing Love in Relationship:

• Tools for fostering clear communication and deeper connection, with yourself and your other.

• Constructive approaches to addressing and resolving conflicts, with yourself and your other.

• A way to consciously face and process challenging situations by connecting with your inner wisdom.

• Skills to create clarity in difficult moments.

• Group process that supports your growth and internal experiences.

• Community, Accountability, mirroring, witnessing, seeing yourself b/c of others, seeing yourself in others.

• Facilitation in The Work of Byron Katie®.

• Recordings.

• Curriculum.

Prerequisites:

• This course is open to everyone—whether you’re a beginner or experienced in The Work of Byron Katie®.

• It’s designed for all who have an open mind and the motive is freedom.

What sets this course apart:

• Delivered entirely online via Zoom, creating a comfortable, accessible, international learning space from the luxury of your choice.

• No tips, no teaching, no advice giving—this isn’t about offering tips or solutions, but providing a space for you to discover your own inner wisdom, your own answers and experience your own clarity.

Meet your Host and Facilitator

Hi, I’m Tammy Ketura—a sociologist, course host, Certified Facilitator of "The Work of Byron Katie®," bestselling author, and mother. Guiding people through these internal transformative experiences has been my heartfelt mission since 2018.

Many clients, particularly those recovering from challenging marriages have said, “If only I experienced this earlier!!” Inspired by such AHA-moments, I’ve crafted this course to distill those life-changing insights into actionable tools that empower individuals and couples to navigate the journey of love and partnership with clarity, joy, and pleasure!

If you’re ready to support you in your powerful personal way, this course offers a supportive and insightful path forward.

In “The Work of Byron Katie®,” we identify and explore both conscious and unconscious thoughts, beliefs, and stories. These form the foundation of our emotions, actions, and life systems. Together, we dive into this exploration. Clients often share how deeply this work has influenced their lives.

This led me to ask an important question: can we bring clarity even at the stage of choosing a partner and perhaps avoid the challenges and pain that separation or divorce can bring? My personal attraction to “The Work” is rooted in its experience of freedom and connection.

I’m curious to see how you experience the course content. I look forward to meeting you and embarking on this inward journey together.

1:1 Partnership – Embodying Consciousness Together

To provide you with a deepened eCourse experience, you have the opportunity to connect online with other participants from Embracing Love in Relationship and further explore and support each other with the content you’ve experienced. This part is completely voluntary and suggested.

Your 1:1 — Session with Myself

As part of a course benefit, you’ll have the chance to work with me individually at a reduced rate. We’ll meet on Zoom for a 75-minute session, and you bring the topics. This allows you to deepen your understanding of “The Work of Byron Katie®” and give attention to situations you may prefer to address alone. Additionally, this 1:1 session(s) provides you with the space to explore your biggest challenges in Inquiry and receive extra support where you may feel stuck.

Course participants can book this session at a special rate of Fr. 140.00 Swiss Franc (instead of CHF 250), or a sliding scale for non-Swiss residents, starting at Fr. 90.00 Swiss Franc.

Course Completion

The course is designed to provide you with a solid firsthand experience with “The Work of Byron Katie®.” It also serves as a solid foundation for further personal growth.

Participants receive a certificate of attendance upon completing the course.

This course is recognized by the Verband für The Work of Byron Katie (VTW) as part of their Coach/Teacher training program. It counts as one full day toward certification.

No prior knowledge of “The Work of Byron Katie®” is required. The method is accessible to anyone with an open mind.

Course Dates

In 2025, Loving What Is: Embracing Love in Relationship is offered 6 times.

Each course cycle includes five sessions, held on Mondays from 2:30 PM to 4:00 PM (90 minutes), London time.

Registration Deadline

Sunday, before the course begins :)

Cycle 1: Starts Monday, February 3, 2025. 5 Sessions take place on:

- Monday, February 10th,

- Monday, February 17th,

- Monday, February 24th,

- Monday, March 3rd, and

- Monday, March 10.

Cycle 2: Starts Monday, March 24th, 2025. 5 Sessions take place on:

- Monday, March 24th,

- Monday, March 31th,

- Monday, April 7th – No session (Spring Break AR)

- Monday, April 14th – No session (Spring Break AR)

- Monday, April 21st – No session (Easter)

- Monday, April 28th,

- Monday, May 5th, and

- Monday, May 12th.

Cycle 3: Starts Monday, May 19, 2025. 5 Sessions take place on:

- Monday, May 19th,

- Monday, May 26th,

- Monday, June 2nd,

- Monday, June 9 – No session (Whit Monday)

- Monday, June 16th, and

- Monday, June 23rd.

Cycle 4: Starts Monday, August 18, 2025. 5 sessions take place on:

- Monday, August 18th,

- Monday, August 25th,

- Monday, September 1st,

- Monday, September 8th, and

- Monday, September 15th.

Cycle 5: Starts Monday, September 22, 2025. 5 Sessions take place on:

- Monday, September 22nd,

- Monday, October 29th,

- Monday, October 6th – No session (Autumn Break)

- Monday, October 13th – No session (Autumn Break)

- Monday, October 20th,

- Monday, October 27th, and

- Monday, November 3rd.

Cycle 6: Starts Monday, November 17, 2025. 5 Sessions take place on:

- Monday, November 17th,

- Monday, November 24th,

- Monday, December 1st,

- Monday, December 8th, and

- Monday, December 15th.

Course Fee

For non-Swiss nationals a sliding scale from 125.00 to 497.00 Swiss Francs.

For Swiss nationals 497.00 Swiss Francs.

When you possess a KulturLegi Card, you benefit from 30% rebate. Send a photo of your valid KulturLegi card with your registration.

Is Stress Reduction Online Event Course Loving What Is® Embracing Love in Relationship resonating you and you are hesitant to commit? Enjoy a live 15-minute call with me: ask all your questions and share your hesitations. I’m eager to support you with the information you need to make an informed decision for you. Please reach out via WhatsApp at +41 78 878 06 22 or email tammy@tammyketura.com to find the best time for us to meet. If you don’t receive a reply, I did not receive it: please try again or contact me a different way.

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Thank You for Yes! to Yourself! I’m so excited! Thank You for your registration, your curiosity, and trust!

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In adoration to us on these awe-ing and transformative journeys,

Your

Tammy Ketura